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How to gain more self confidence  and inspire yourself  in 5 steps

Sometimes we all have moments when we really wonder where our self confidence went.

Yes, I can gain more self confidence.  Because I am loving me today! And that comes with practice and steps to help change our thinking. Here are 5 steps to gain more self confidence.


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  1. Hi, Ariel! Thanks for sharing this article!
    Sometimes I think that I have little problems with self-confidence. Great tips!
    I meditate in my own way, visualize and try to use the law of attraction. I believe that I would not be here if it isn’t working. Meditation helped me with anxiety and stress relief. If you want to read a little bit more about that, you can check my website:
    When I am in the present moment and breathe, colors of everything are even more vivid and beautiful than before. It so enjoyable to watch the sunset and cry from beauty and joy.
    Affirmations are a great way to change our mindset and heal ourselves. It helped my mom.
    Thank you again for your thoughts, experience, and knowledge! 🙂

    1. Hello Linda, I think we all have moments where our self confidence needs a boost..grin..I agree that we have these tools to give us greater insight and live in our lives the best we can. thank you for the website referral. I am grateful for your input…and yes to being in the present..its gorgeous!

  2. It really takes courage and self-confidence to view the world as a happy place, especially if you are in a wheelchair! It shows that the rest of us often complain without any real problems. You are an inspiration and you have really opened up your mind. I am in a job I hate, in a country that gets worse every year(Greece). I want to quit my job, but I can’t do it financially wise. It’s really difficult doing something for 8 years that you don’t like.. I would like to hear your opinion. Should I wait or take the free fall and quit?

    1. Hello John, thank you so much for taking the time to visit my site.

      It’s lovely to meet you. And thank you for the encouragement.  As someone who is much older I have learned that when we do not follow our hearts, we end up betraying the best parts of ourselves. And we end up disillusioned and unhappy.

      So this is a decision that only you can make. But I think I am hearing that you already know the answer.

      The decision is really based on finding your own legend. And that takes courage, fortitude and determination that you know you are worth it. So ask your deepest highest self, what do you want to do? What do you need to thrive? And if you listen closely the answer will come to you. 

      Sometimes we are bogged down by logistics, like money, but when we clear the brush, we finally see it was just a way to hold us back. All the answers you need are just awaiting your acknowledging your true self.

      You might have to make some different living arrangements until you are where you want to be. But its only temporary. Find your focus, find your dream and then do everything possible to get there.

      In fact there is a book on my website..,.not selling Jack Canfield’s The Success Principle. Get a hold of will give you the blueprint to exactly where you want to go.It changed my life…

      I would love to hear what path you decide on. I know you will make the one that will stir the symphony of your heart. One step at a time.

      Wishing you showers of blessings,


  3. Thank you so much for your thoughts and suggestions. I am trying to let go of allowing others’ perceived judgements of me matter.
    I am trying to meditate and bring positive energy around me.
    I am also trying to get out of my comfort zone and try to do 1 new thing everyday!

    1. Hello Jerilyn! So many thanks for being here! I know your heart is going to forge your way through to what is your joy! I am so happy you stopped by. Many thanks. Good luck with all that you are doing. I cannot wait to hear how all the new things you are trying. I think its your time to fly! I know you will succeed. Thank you for your encouragement. ariel

      1. I have been trying to do something new everyday. Taking a long walk in a new direction, trying a new class at the gym, cooking something new….Today I tried a new class at the gym… was fun but it would have been a lot more fun if I were 20 years younger!!
        I am trying to talk to new people everyday. One of the main things I am trying to be is more grateful, everyday and to tell others how grateful I am. Your writing and teaching a a huge part of that.Thank you!

  4. Hello, Self confidence is so important because without it we can not hope to achieve and meet those goals. Every success story in this world came because that person took courage believed in themselves that they could do it and went for it, that is self confidence. having self confidence is at the heart and root of success. Your post is a good read and will inspire so many people.

    1. Hello Norman! So many thanks for your words of encouragement and kindness. I think you are so right. Without self confidence there is no going forward to taking steps of achievement and joy.It is always so awe inspiring to see those that take the choice of knowing their belief in themselves. I look forward to you visiting again. Many thanks. Wishing you blessings and showers of success. ariel

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