FOR THE LOVE OF SELF, 12 steps

FOR THE LOVE OF SELF, 12 steps

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for the love of self
You know that feeling of the uh oh? When its pretty apparent something did not go down well in your deepest space? I know that feeling. I am pretty sure you might know it too. We have all lived there at times. Well, maybe not you. But for sure I have. Grin.

The question is though, what are we willing to do for the love of self?
Are we willing to forego the easy and go for the sustained knowing?

I found myself asking these questions. And I was a bit surprised by the answers.

But first I have to acknowledge this moment. I don’t know about you, but my world has changed so fast lately. I have started this blog and made dear friends all over the world.

I am truly finding my voice. I feel the energy of change is so overflowing and potent. I am so healthy, strong and oh yes, vibrant! I am literally thriving and get up each day shouting I love my life.
And I am part of a circle of people who are excited with life and striving to be the best to each other and ourselves.

Have you also felt that energetic quality in the air?
Something is truly afoot. And it is glorious!

energy changing
My beautiful life quilt is daily being woven with a priceless thread of love.
But how did I get here? How do we all get here to this place of such incredible possibility?
What are the steps to knowing that indeed when we are ready the Universe provides?

12 STEPS

1. We have let go of all the criticism of self and others

2. We no longer need or live in fear

3. We are in full charge of our thoughts, so we live and walk in love and peace
4. We allow ourselves to see our own values and assets, not based on external societal values
5. We can look into the mirror and truly see our own beauty

6. We have let go of yesterday’s story, this is truly important. You are no longer that. So let it go.
7. Taking back our own power

8. The skill of self-confidence, the belief you can accomplish it
9. Persistence, determination and patience
10. Give your heart away, remember the more we help others we are really growing our own hearts.
11. Our thoughts influence our actions, so choose carefully!
12. Surround yourself with people who lift you up. This is huge, when the energy is positive and YES WE CAN amazing things happen. We change, we grow, we thrive, we love easily. And the best part is we love ourselves in a nourishing and nurturing way. Because now we know how to make it happen and live it.

affirmations

AFFIRMATIONS:

I AM THE CAPTAIN OF MY SHIP AND THE MASTER OF MY FATE

I AM THE CEO OF MY UNIVERSE

I LOVE AND APPROVE OF MYSELF JUST AS I AM

I CHANGE MY THINKING I CHANGE MY LIFE

WHEN I BELIEVE IT, I LIVE IT

I AM LOVE

I INTERPRET MY LIFE AS WONDERFUL AND CAPABLE

Try saying these everyday several times a day. Post them where you can easily see them and know that change is coming as we allow ourselves to step into that mode of loving and accepting our world.

I WOULD LOVE YOU TO JOIN ME IN THIS AMAZING JOURNEY OF TRAINING AND MAKING MONEY BLOGGING. IT HAS TOTALLY CHANGED MY WORLD. DO CLICK HERE FOR MORE INFORMATION PLEASE. I WILL BE HERE FOR ANY QUESTIONS.

 

 

TRY THIS!

Sit down and write yourself a love letter. Write down all the things you have done well. List at least 10 things. Dig deep and find the things that truly make your heart sing. Do not hesitate to brag on yourself. Because if you cannot say it to yourself, who else would say it?

Now take this letter, read it every day. Post it where you see it first thing in the morning. Hang it on your bathroom mirror. And look at it. Know that on this day, at this moment, I am thriving because that is my choice. Wow, talk about power!

vision

SUMMARY

It is really important as we do this journey to self to acknowledge that we are no longer all the back stories of our lives. That indeed as we go forward the only thing that matters is our choice to live this moment.

That is really empowering, my world is in my hands. So how do I want to navigate this? Having seen both sides of the fence, I have to tell you that this sense of being at one with myself is beyond thrilling and powerful.
When we make that choice to step into our own heart song, the Universe conspires to hear us and make it happen. When it does, watch out. Life changes so very quickly!

So do the work. Be brave. Be beautiful. Be you!

Know that you are so very worth everything and more. Let go of old stories, open the window to not being in judgment and labels. Let our internal world determine our steps. The externalized world is not our heart, it is just a mirror. And if the mirror is not showing our best foot forward, well then we need to make some changes.
And that is completely within our own power. Decide what needs to change or be let go to go forward in peace and joy and complete thriving.
be the reason someone smiles today
It is all within our grasp. It is just the choice to jump in. Do jump in, it is beyond the scope of our dreams… It is heady stuff. I feel like I have this natural buzz all day long. How long has it been since we have lived that way, or ever?
We are on the NOW plan. Not waiting for circumstance to change. We are ready now. And each step we make into seeing our own beauty and goodness takes us closer to that natural buzz.
I really want to share this buzz with you, so please do jump in the water. It is so soothing and invigorating!

I want to hear how you are choosing to be in love with our self. So please share your thoughts!


In peace and gratitude


Founder of success-full-living.com, Living one heart-centric moment at a time!

8 thoughts on “FOR THE LOVE OF SELF, 12 steps

  1. Hi Ariel! I love this article. Especially agree with #10 – give your heart away. I think so many people don’t understand this because they think you have to be selfish in order to be happy. That’s not always true! Doing things to build your confidence while helping others is what builds our hearts and happiness. Thanks for sharing!

    1. Hello Sarah, thank you so much for stopping by. I so agree with you.And spreading that confidence and love changes the energy all around us. It is such a lovely way to live. Taking care of self is not selfish. Truly taking care of self from the heart out is how we heal the world. So glad to chat with you. I hope you do stop by soon again! In peace and gratitude, ariel

  2. Thank you for writing and sharing this, Ariel. It came at the right time. I am at the phase in my life where I feel the need to love myself.

    And coincidentally, I just saw a video that said the same thing about letting go of the past, of yesterday’s story. This was the message from the video – Don’t Ask From Your Past, Ask From Abundance. It is advise to ask more from the Universe, and not based on who we were (short version … haha)

    Once again, Thank You! 🙂

    1. Hello Timotheus, isn’t the universe amazing in making sure we get the messages we need when we ready to hear them? So serendipity, yes? I am so happy you are finding your answers. I hope we get to chat again soon. Thanks for being here. In peace and gratitude, ariel

  3. Hi Ariel, I’m a firm believer in self-love and open acceptance of YOU. Ho’Oponopono is one form of opening yourself up to your own love and acceptance.

    I love the affirmations.

    Such a beautiful article.

    1. Hello Sue, I am so glad you stopped by. And I don’t know about you, but as a child I was not taught that taking care of self was important too. I hope that young kids are now being given a very different message. Thank you for being here. In peace and gratitude, ariel

  4. Love this, Ariel. 7 &12 go hand in hand, in a way, to me. Taking back your power is partly having healthy boundaries. And that means letting those close only who are good for you.

    1. Hello Annie, So well said. And when we own our own power, we are not buffered by anything around us.. and that is so expansive and freeing, yes? And for sure when we surround ourselves with people around who are so positive and caring that lifts us too. So glad you stopped by, IN peace and gratitude,ariel

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